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C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng bu\u1ed5i t\u1ed1i t\u00f4i ng\u1ed3i m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh, nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i ch\u1eb7ng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i qua, v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn ra m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n h\u00e1o h\u1ee9c x\u00e1ch ba l\u00f4 l\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1i th\u1eddi \u0111\u00f4i m\u01b0\u01a1i n\u1eefa. \u1ede ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y, nh\u1eefng con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u01b0 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn h\u00f3a ra l\u1ea1i g\u1eadp gh\u1ec1nh, nh\u1eefng d\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1eefng v\u00e0ng c\u00f3 l\u00fac tan v\u1ee1 gi\u1eefa ch\u1eebng. Nh\u01b0ng k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng th\u00ec v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u0111\u00f3, l\u1eb7ng l\u1ebd h\u01a1n, kh\u00f4ng \u1ed3n \u00e0o nh\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc, nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn \u00e2m th\u1ea7m len v\u00e0o t\u1eebng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh, t\u1eebng \u0111\u00eam tr\u1eb1n tr\u1ecdc ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 qua v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec c\u00f2n \u1edf ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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C\u00e1i gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t n\u1ed7i kh\u1eafc kho\u1ea3i r\u1ea5t ri\u00eang \u2014 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec thi\u1ebfu tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m, m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i qua qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u. T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 c\u00e1i gi\u00e1 ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3 khi k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0111au v\u00ec n\u00f3, \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn khi m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng di\u1ec5n ra nh\u01b0 mong mu\u1ed1n. Nh\u01b0ng bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ec7n, bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hay kh\u00f4ng l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00e1c h\u1eb3n. \u0110\u1ebfn gi\u1edd t\u00f4i v\u1eabn loay hoay gi\u1eefa vi\u1ec7c mu\u1ed1n ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u1ef1 d\u1eabn l\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng kh\u00fac quanh m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i qua, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u01b0 sai l\u1ea7m \u1edf \u0111\u00fang th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u00f3, gi\u1edd ng\u1eabm l\u1ea1i l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u1eb7t \u0111\u00e1ng gi\u00e1 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh. M\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c t\u1eebng m\u1ea5t \u0111i, h\u00f3a ra l\u1ea1i m\u1edf \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng cho m\u1ed9t h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111i kh\u00e1c b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng h\u01a1n. M\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1eebng \u0111\u1ed5 v\u1ee1, h\u00f3a ra l\u1ea1i d\u1ea1y cho m\u00ecnh hi\u1ec3u th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00fang ngh\u0129a. \u0110\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ee7 ch\u00edn \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra: kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i kh\u00fac cua n\u00e0o c\u0169ng l\u00e0 tai h\u1ecda \u2014 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng kh\u00fac cua ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u00f3n qu\u00e0, ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 m\u00ecnh ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7 t\u0129nh t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn ra.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

K\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb h\u01a1n<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh \u1edf tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y, th\u1eddi gian kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 v\u00f4 h\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 thong th\u1ea3 ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd n\u1eefa. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1t ru\u1ed9t l\u1eb7ng l\u1ebd, khi nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i qu\u1ef9 th\u1eddi gian c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh mong mu\u1ed1n hay ch\u01b0a. K\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng \u1edf tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u1eddi to t\u00e1t, m\u00e0 thu l\u1ea1i th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u gi\u1ea3n d\u1ecb h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u: m\u1ed9t s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f2n \u0111i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng ch\u1eb7ng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00e0i, m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u00ecnh an, m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i h\u1ed5 th\u1eb9n khi nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i, v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n b\u1edbt d\u1eb1n v\u1eb7t h\u01a1n m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u1edbi t\u00f4i, l\u00e0m ngh\u1ec1 t\u1ed5ng th\u1ea7u x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng v\u00e0 c\u01a1 \u0111i\u1ec7n c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng kh\u00e1c g\u00ec h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh \u1ea5y \u2014 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i c\u00f4ng tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0o c\u0169ng \u0111i \u0111\u00fang nh\u01b0 b\u1ea3n v\u1ebd ban \u0111\u1ea7u, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i ngo\u00e0i k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch bu\u1ed9c m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0m l\u1ea1i. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i th\u01b0\u1eddng cho ra k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 b\u1ea3n thi\u1ebft k\u1ebf g\u1ed1c. S\u1ed1ng, hay l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, suy cho c\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 v\u1ebd h\u1ebft b\u1eb1ng b\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed3. T\u00f4i v\u1eabn gi\u1eef k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng, nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u1ecdn \u0111\u00e8n nh\u1ecf soi \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, nh\u01b0ng c\u1ed1 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh g\u00f4ng c\u00f9m r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c b\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00e2n. Gi\u1eef \u0111\u1ee7 kh\u1eafc kho\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng, \u0111\u1ee7 tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111ang c\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ee7 bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd m\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ebd mang t\u1edbi \u2014 b\u1edfi c\u00f3 l\u1ebd, nh\u1eefng kh\u00fac cua ta kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 ch\u1ecdn m\u1edbi ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111o\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i qua.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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